Wednesday, May 29, 2013

The Journey... to a more fit me.




Hello!  And how is everyone today?! Yes I'm feeling rather perky this morning... which is quite an accomplishment for a full fledged night owl!!  I have to admit I am feeling great!  Why? you ask... well, you see, there is a reason I have disappeared, once again, from the blog world and FB for that matter as well.  The story goes like this... back in during the winter I started to prepare for a trip to France with our middle son and the French program at his high school.  You know, doing things like trying to add in a little more walking (because our house is smaller and it takes minimal steps to get from one end to the other) and deciding what to wear.  I noticed some of my favorite spring outfits had gotten a little tight over the winter... hmm.. yes I did the inevitable!  I got on the scales!!  And do you know what?  I did NOT like what I saw... then I took a good look in the mirror, wearing minimal clothing.  THAT did it!  I mean seriously how could I have gotten this out of shape!!!  We won't discuss how much I weighed (that will be many months done the road... just know it wasn't pretty!!!)  So I started to walk a little more... and cut out the late night snacking.  Fast forward to France... oh the food was delicious but the serving sizes were smaller.  Trust me that wasn't bad at all... in fact they were the perfect size.  Yes I kept up with the group but then I got home and saw the pictures of me... that did it!  NO more couch potato!!


Yes that is me... a rather unflattering me... 
(please excuse the impassive expression and bad hair... ha ha!)

The big thing that I took away from that trip was the need for more exercise!  Fast forward to the beginning of May when I realized I had slipped back into the old routine... dinner, dishes, hours on the computer, then bed.  I did not gain anything but I was stagnant and sluggish feeling again.  Things had to change...  Fast forward to now, May 28th, 2013... a mere 8 weeks into this new trek.  I'm down 13 lbs, have lost several inches, and most importantly have tons more energy!  What am I doing?  Well first of all I am limiting my computer time... all game apps have been deleted off my FB page, browsing is kept to a bare minimum, and I no longer sit on the couch for any computer work.  Yes the couch was my safe place, my comfy place... the place I could spend hours on the computer.  Not any longer!!  OH this means I am getting to bed earlier as well and getting up earlier.  Am I in bed every single night at a reasonable hour? No, not by any stretch of the imagination but it has gotten to the point where more nights than not I am in bed and asleep around 11:00 p.m.  The addition of exercise (an arm work-out, a core work-out, and a walk every single day!!) has really been beneficial as well.  I do the arm work-out twice a day right now because I really, really want to see results!  Yes, jiggly arms be gone!!  (I'm looking forward to wearing shorter sleeves this summer!!)  Some of my additional exercise has come in the form of taking the stairs instead of the elevator, parking at the opposite end of the parking lot from the store entrance, and parking at the very opposite end of the mall when I have to stop in for something.  Each extra step really adds up!  

However the biggest change has been in the kitchen and what goes in my mouth.  No, there is no non-fat, super low calorie processed foods in this house!  There has been the addition of more whole grains (preferably sprouted for ease of digestibility), more vegetables, chicken, fruits, and nuts... and LOTS and LOTS of WATER!!! Do I treat myself with food any longer?  Not so much.  I've discovered my craving for sweets has diminished tremendously and when I do eat something super sweet.. it is just that SUPER sweet!  To the point of being too sweet.  If I do have a true craving, do I deny myself?  NOPE not one bit but moderation is the key.  I've found that by eating just a single bite or even two is typically enough to satisfy that craving.  In fact that is all I will put on my plate or in my bowl.  Then I use either a demitasse spoon or a baby spoon and slowly eat my indulgence.  By slowing down and truly savoring each and every tiny bite I've learned that I don't need all that much to satisfy me.  

Do I reward myself with food any longer?  NO, No, and no!  But I do reward my self... a pack of gum with xylitol, a new bottle of finger nail polish, or repotting cuttings from a friend's succulents.  I know the finger nail polish is a crazy one, right?!  Well, if you knew me you would realize it is!  But do you know what?  At 48 I am discovering it can be kinda fun to be a bit girly!  Yes, this coming from the "girl" who has lived in a house full of males for the past 19 years!!  (and I wasn't all the girly before they came along! ha ha!) OH the third thing for me has been accountability...  I have a friend I talk to pretty close to every single time I got for a walk.  I am part of an on-line fitness group where I check in once a week with my progress as well as daily (if necessary for encouragement) as well as part of a tiny private group that encourages each other to get to bed on time.  



That being said you will be seeing more of my fitness routine, new recipes, progress updates, and photos from my walks.


(yes it is super fuzzy... that is what happens when one is laughing while trying to take a self photo while standing on a chair! lol!  Oh those jeans were too tight for me to wear while in France!!  They are now even a tiny bit loose fresh out of the dryer!)

So feel free to keep up with the progress being made!  If you are wondering what finally propelled me to get in shape after 13 years... well it was the realization that I am not getting any younger and that I finally.. FINALLY wanted to do this.. not because anyone was pressuring me but because this is the body the Lord has given me and I need to take better care of it!  I might be 48 with a teenager who is leaving home next week to begin his own journey in life as an adult but that doesn't make me old... there is still life to be lived! So I'm getting off my duff and getting back into the game!!

Have a wonderful day!!

Wednesday, April 24, 2013

Pointe du hoc, omaha beach, and points in between



Mere words can not express the raw emotions I felt on the day we visited Pointe du Hoc, 
Arromanches-le-Bains, Omaha Beach, the American Cemetery in Normandy, and points between.  Somehow the cold blustery day was befitting the solemnity of the visit.

Pointe du Hoc








Arromanches-les-Bains




Normandy American Cemetery at Omaha Beach












Monday, April 15, 2013

Paris at night


Twinkling stars
paris nights
magical moments
shared alone
looking forward to the time when we go together



artwork 
memories
shared & treasured





Thursday, April 11, 2013

Scenes from France

Hello!  or rather Bonjour!... the greeting made to/by EVERY shop owner in France.  The past few weeks have been a true whirlwind of activity.  End of the term, Easter, preparations for a trip to Washington D.C. with the 8th grade class made by my husband and Evan, and then all the preparations for the trip to France that Sean and I made with the high school French program.  A whirlwind hardly describes life for the past few weeks.  After 8 days in France with 40 high school students and 10 adult.... well let's just say I am typing literally typing with my eyes closed right now.  And sleep, what's that?  Yes I am currently in withdrawal mode.... but I'm enjoying it.  The weather is fantastic here at home... in the 60's (something we did not see in France at all... in fact it was unseasonably cold... we even saw snow!)  but is was simply beautiful! oh i am not enjoying the withdrawal from good coffee though.  I kept my beverage of choice consumption to a minimum because I knew once I returned home the withdrawal symptoms would be monumental.  No not from the lack of caffeine but rather from the lack of good quality coffee.  It has been so long since I've had a truly wonderful cup of coffee.  One that was so smooth... so incredibly smooth that no sugar or cream was needed.  no trace of bitterness, just pure decadence!  Yes I miss my coffee!!  So if any of you have ever been to France, currently live in France, or have ever had that sublime coffee of France before please, please offer up some advice.  Yes I am willing to pay the price in order to get that kind of coffee once again.  With no further adieu I present to you but a few scenes from France.  There will be more to come in days to follow... days where I am more wide awake and can actually type with my eyes open.  days where the washing machine isn't whirring continually in the background.  Days where soft music is playing, bread is rising, and projects are underway once again.
Just a few shots from our last evening in France.... spent in Montmatre and the Eiffel tower.


the shops

Montmatre... the classic view of the city

eiffel tower on our final night

 the quintessential carousel of France

Monday, March 25, 2013

Snow day!!

Just a few quick photos to share of our spring "storm"
(not the prettiest as I wasn't willing to venture out in pjs while waiting for the laundry to finish)
(more to come as the day progresses!)



Through the front window... our Korean Lilac bush


Drifting a little anyone?


Where is the step and the dog's bowl?


Snow anyone?
12 inches and still coming down!

As you can see I didn't venture out the doors yet... maybe once the boys are up!  

Have a wonderful day!

Thursday, March 07, 2013

Mid-West Meet Up





I am so excited!  In a little over a week I'll be heading up to the Illinois to spend the day with a group of ladies whose blogs I've admired for some time.  This event is being hosted and coordinated by the lovely Jennifer Rizzo.  Karianne from Thistlewood Farms and Heather from At the Picket Fence will joining us as well.  And if I play my cards right I will even be able to spend a little time with family who don't live all that far away either!!  

If you think you might be interested the cost is $25 (payable in advance, space limited to 25) which includes breakfast, refreshments, and a lovely swag bag followed by a few hours of shopping and just enjoying each others company!

All in all it will be a nice getaway! 


p.s.
do you think i just might be a little bit giddy?  

Wednesday, February 27, 2013

A little day to day....

Just wanted to pop in to say hello!  No I haven't forgotten about you... in fact I think about you all and this blog quite often.  I've been taking more to time with my family recently... they grow up too quickly.  So between swim practices/meets, getting ready for a trip to France, battling colds and winter crud, taxes and college registration, college visits and more clutter control this is pretty much what has been going on in our home....

Been listing to a lot of this and this... 


Adding a bit of greenery in the form of this.


 new storage!  gotta love a good deal at TJ Max!  



pretty beads from here

and if we had smell-o-vision you would smell hints of chocolate, homemade pasta sauce, and the underlying hint of acrylic paint. 

Have a wonderful day!!